When Someone You Love Starts Controlling the Small Things

You’ve noticed the shift. He used to be easygoing about dinner plans, but now he needs to know exactly what you’re cooking and when. The thermostat has become a battleground. He’s created new “house rules” that feel less like teamwork and more like mandates. And when you gently push back, the tension in the room could cut glass.

Here’s what nobody tells you: when someone feels powerless in the world outside your home, they often reach for control over the small, manageable things inside it. It’s not always conscious. It’s rarely malicious. But it is real, and it affects everyone in the household.

Today, I’m going to walk you through nine signs this is happening, why it matters, and — most importantly — how to create a conversation that honors both your peace and his struggle.To read more, tap here